Kendra Holliday, St Louis MO photo by Stan Strembicki

I operate on mutual respect. Confidentiality is assured. Lifestyle and kink-friendly!

Personal Consulting

I provide personal consulting services to individuals and couples. Sex is my focus, but it ties in with many of the other aspects of our life – family, business, relating to others.

I offer a holistic approach and specialize in intimacy, connection, breakups, polyamory and other relationship dynamics, alternative lifestyles, fetishes, kink, BDSM, and sex work, including safe and sex-positive St. Louis resources.

One hour = $200. I can meet face-to-face, or via phone, facetime, Zoom, or Skype. All inquiries and sessions are confidential.

Please note: To keep this work sustainable for me, I evaluate your desires against my “yes” and work with clients on a case-by-case basis.

Take a look at this BDSM panel I was a part of for the Love Abilities festival in October 2020:

Surrogate Partner

A surrogate partner, also called a sex surrogate or intimacy coach, is a person who helps others overcome social and sexual issues through hands on intimacy. It is intimate. It is therapeutic. It is not entertainment. An initial consultation (one hour = $150) is the first step to determine if this is a good option for you.

This option is helpful to those who are sexually inexperienced, have disabilities, in transition, suffering from a mental or physical issue such as anxiety, sex abuse or trauma, Erectile Dysfunction (ED), Premature / Rapid Ejaculation, sexual confusion, social or religious persecution, and more.


Fetish/Creative Sex

Kendra Holliday will guide you toward health and happiness

My interests for discussion include:

    • Body image
    • Cuddling, intimacy, skinship
    • Ethical non-monogamy
    • Cock worship
    • Prostate massage (aka Prostage)
    • Disabilities
    • Sensation play
    • Threesomes
    • Kink/Fetishes
    • SPH (small penis humiliation)
    • Roleplay (religious, office, teacher/student, mommy/incest, stepmom/stepson, etc.)
    • Transgender self-actualization
    • Asexuality and Aromanticism

Tantra Awakening Ritual

It’s not what you think… the sacred / light side of sexuality. The alternative to traditional friction sex

Tantra Study under Barbara Carrellas of Urban Tantra
Tantra Study under Barbara Carrellas of Urban Tantra
For best results, follow my rules :) photo by Stan Strembicki

Reservation and Cancellation Policy

If you would like to schedule a consultation with me, please see my Reservation page and then contact me for payment options and other details.

Once I receive your deposit, I will contact you to set up the appointment. I’m available days, evenings, and weekends. I usually book a week or two out.

The reason behind my Reservation and Cancellation Policy:

This insures that you are serious about seeing me, and prevents my time from being wasted.

I receive multiple inquiries daily, and I accommodate as many of them as I can. I operate professionally and am reliable. I am very accessible and public, which allows people to get to know me on an intimate level. I put it all out there. When someone new contacts me, I don’t know them at all, but I take their request seriously and go out of my way to help them address whatever topics or issues they may have. When an appointment gets canceled on short notice, my time is wasted. Not only that, but this is what I do for a living, and I’m forgoing time with my loved ones and friends in order to meet with people I don’t know. I WANT to know you, so let’s make it happen!

I operate on mutual respect, which is a key quality for developing healthy relationships. Confidentiality is assured.

Thank you!