Kendra Holliday, St Louis

COVID-19 update, Oct 1, 2020: Due to the response of our country to the pandemic since earlier this year, I’m greatly limiting in-person meetings at this time, with screening, masks and distance required. Virtual meetings are the safest option.

I’m focusing the next two months on a writing project, as I continue to reduce risk and wait this out.

I operate on mutual respect. Confidentiality is assured. Lifestyle and kink-friendly!

Personal Consulting

I offer personal consulting services to individuals and couples. Sex is my focus, but it ties in with many of the other aspects of our life – family, business, relating to others. I take a holistic approach and specialize in alternative lifestyles, fetishes, kink, BDSM, online dating profiles, breakups, polyamory and other relationship and intimacy dynamics, and sex work, including safe and sex-positive St. Louis resources.

One hour = $120. I prefer meeting face-to-face, but if you are located somewhere besides St. Louis, email/chat/Skype/phone are all options. All inquiries and sessions are confidential.

Sex Surrogacy

A sex surrogate, also called a surrogate partner or intimacy coach, is a person who helps others overcome social and sexual issues through hands on intimacy. It is intimate. It is therapeutic. It is not entertainment. An initial consultation (one hour = $120) is the first step to determine if this is a good option for you.

This option is helpful to those who are sexually inexperienced, have disabilities, in transition, suffering from a mental or physical issue such as anxiety, sex abuse or trauma, Erectile Dysfunction (ED), Premature / Rapid Ejaculation, sexual confusion, social or religious persecution, and more.


Fetish/Creative Sex

Kendra Holliday will guide you toward health and happiness

My interests include

    • Cock worship
    • Medical roleplay (uretrhral sounding, examinations)
    • Mommy/incest roleplay
    • Male chastity ritual
    • Religious roleplay
    • Teacher/student roleplay
    • Office boss roleplay
    • Erotic humiliation
    • Sensual domination
    • Pegging
    • Prostate play
    • CBT (Cock and Ball Torture)
    • SPH (small penis humiliation)
    • Disabilities
    • Golden showers / piss play
    • Spanking bench / whips chains crosses / bondage / sensation
    • Shadow work / profane sex / dark side exploration
    • Sissification / feminization / transgender self-actualization
    • Lingerie dress up

Tantra Awakening Ritual

It’s not what you think… the sacred / light side of sexuality. The alternative to traditional friction sex

Tantra Study under Barbara Carrellas of Urban Tantra

Tantra Study under Barbara Carrellas of Urban Tantra

Menopause Mentoring

My hormone shift took me by surprise – there were so many symptoms I didn’t know about! There’s so much more to it than hot flashes. I can help you find solutions that are right for you when it comes to this major life change, which is akin to puberty. It can make you feel crazy!


I offer sex workshops. Topic ideas: anal, female ejaculation, relationship styles, fetishes, BDSM, how to be successful with women, orgasms 101, how to give great head, sex-positive parenting, and much more. Or, you can just use the workshop as a safe place to discuss sex in an open and honest forum.

Follow the rules! ;)

Reservation and Cancellation Policy

If you would like to schedule a consultation with me, please see my Reservation page and then contact me to request my address so that you can mail me a non-refundable $120 check or money order ahead of time.

Once I receive your check or money order, I will contact you to set up the appointment. I’m available days, evenings, and weekends. I usually book a week or two out.

Once you are an established client and we have developed a rapport, cash at the time of the appointment is fine (and preferred). If you cancel an appointment with less than 24 hours notice, I will expect payment for that appointment before we schedule another one.

I love meeting in person, but for those of you not in the St. Louis, MO area, phone or Skype works as well.

The reason behind my Reservation and Cancellation Policy:

This insures that you are serious about seeing me, and prevents my time from being wasted.

I receive multiple inquiries daily, and I accommodate as many of them as I can. I operate professionally and am reliable. I am very accessible and public, which allows people to get to know me on an intimate level. I put it all out there. When someone new contacts me, I don’t know them at all, but I take their request seriously and go out of my way to help them address whatever topics or issues they may have. When an appointment gets canceled on short notice, my time is wasted. Not only that, but this is what I do for a living, and I’m forgoing time with my loved ones and friends in order to meet with people I don’t know. I WANT to know you, so let’s make it happen!

I operate on mutual respect, which is a key quality for developing healthy relationships. Confidentiality is assured.

Thank you!